I have a friend who has adopted 3 beautiful children from China and she said that when we came across the place that was right, we would "know". I found that hard to believe because I never "know" anything. I analyze, change my mind and think everything to death. Yet, she was right. We started reading about the country, the culture, the people and the process and it was just "right".
(From the website of Jennifer and Jody)
Sometimes, things are just "right," and you don't know why. You just know that it is what it is.